Tango Babe

Hearing of the Heart

2009-12-13T14:02:00.002-05:00

La Oreja takes my hands and gives them a tug so light I barely notice. The lightly tripping guitar of Espejo de mi vida trips from the stereo, and I am straining to see if Dark Eyes has come this time, and I have little patience for what takes me away.

La Oreja wants to show me who I am and brushes my cheek and laughs in the way she does, the sound welling up from her heart, turning to pure force and exploding like stars from her eyes.
'Yes?' I say, and she has my full attention.
She does not like Dark Eyes.
La Oreja makes a fist and puts the thumb side by her temple. She spirals the fist rapidly outward.
'This means dazzling,' she says...
And I am sinking into her large brown eyes.
'... but if you are just a little off, it means crazy.'
And then Dark Eyes walks in.

Riffs in the Key of Tango

2007-02-08T14:18:00.000-05:00

The bounce from the flute of Eduardo Tami echoes the rough sweetness of so many nights in Buenos Aires where La Culebra smokes her thin cigars, the ones that show off her hands.

El Esquinazo plays brightly, but still La Culebra watches, and her tiny white teeth touch the end of the skinny cigar -- and bite.

Her satin dress shows curves, yet no one asks her to dance.

'That one,' says one man with a cock of his head. 'She is too ferocious.'

Ripping the Butterfly Cocoon

2006-09-10T13:47:00.000-04:00

El Flaco asks La Mariposa to dance, but she looks at the face of her husband, and the storm that is there gives her answer.

She comes to the milonga week after week and sits with her hands in her lap on the outer fringe of the dance floor. Her silent husband is close. In the shadows they are hard to see. He does not dance. No one asks her to dance.

Later, we ask ourselves when it happened, but no one knows when La Mariposa begins to sit alone. Week after week, she comes away from the wall and the shadows, and her hands are no longer in her lap. Her fingers tap to the music. Men ask her to dance.

She wears an orange dress.

I sit beside her as Vida mia begins to play, and La Mariposa laughs.

A man comes across the floot, his intention obvious, and La Mariposa lights up. 'I had forgotten what it was like to like myself.'

The Dance of One Is None

2006-09-05T12:45:00.000-04:00

La Luna is demanding. 'The colgadas are for the daring.' But on this day the balance between partners falters. La Luna, a world-class dancer, is patient, kind, encouraging - unrelenting.

El Flaco arrives to the lesson as it is ending, and he is impatient. He expects the floor to clear for the milonga that will be this night. He cannot control his eyes, and they roll to the ceiling.

I do not know my partner's name, and he does not ask mine, but as Adiós Chantecler sighs into a pause, we fall back into the colgada and spin, spin, spin, my leg free, the trust total.

'All these moves are no good on the dance floor,' El Flaco mutters. 'They can never be done.' He is like this. Practical. Everything to a purpose. 'All this work. All this practice - for nothing.'

And I laugh to myself as I spin, and we both fall back into the safety of each other's weight.

The tango is not steps; it is trust.

The Mirror of Sway

2006-08-18T17:20:00.000-04:00

The colgadas are difficult to learn, and the balance of the forces between the man and woman as they move does not come. They stumble and fall apart.

'Ah, yes,' says La Luna and stops the practice to show. 'The woman follows the man, eh?, but the man also follows the woman.'

She calls for music, and her partner settles them into place as the strains of the instruments fill the tiny milonga and take hold. The eyes of La Luna close in a patient ecstasy, and her arm molds itself to her partner's shoulders. As the body of La Luna sways, her partner echoes and opposes the movement in his own body. They are a perfect counterbalance.

They make each other antigravitational.

The Sidewalk Memory of Cumparsita

2006-08-09T12:49:00.000-04:00

It is late in this night of remembrance, and Dark Eyes commands the stereo. Only a few couples still dance in this early morning of tango, and their tastes delightedly devolve into the scratchy wavering of the Vieja cumparsita.

At the first notes, someone laughs at the abundant familiarity of the song. The dancers show off, and shadows of quick boleos and sweeping colgadas are thrown onto the walls of the tiny dim ballroom.

'This was the first song I ever danced to,' says Dark Eyes. 'Buenos Aires. The woman was generous. With her, I could do anything.' The song comes to its end ... también me dejó He sighs. 'Sometimes I am compelled to play this song.'

The Passing Life of the Abandoned Bandoneón

2006-08-07T11:49:00.000-04:00

The yard sale is in the stony drive beside a trailer. The weeds are breaking through, and everything that was once inside the trailer is emptied onto the hard, bright gravel. Broken figures of courtiers, old license plates, dark clothes of wool, bits of paper, things with too many sequins crowd the card tables. Three old men sit under a tree, and in the only shade of a 90-degree day lies one object by itself.

The case is worn, and the ivory on the buttons is nearly worn away. The folds of its body are like parchment, but inside are still imprisoned the cries of so many La que murió en París.

The bandoneón is ignored by the people walking by, and the old men only say that they used to hear it late at night when everyone had gone to bed, and the old man who lived in the trailer used to get it out.

"He said playing it was like holding a woman in his arms - jumping, lively and noisy," says one of the men, and all three laugh.

The Tectonics of Lightning

2006-07-17T15:10:00.000-04:00

When the rains come, we are soaked, but the urgent sounds of El choclo float off the porch through the drops, and we laugh at ourselves. We have no shoes, and the sand lets us pivot effortlessly. Our bodies become slick against each other, and the thunder makes the very air shake.

The threads of lightning strike again and again a place on the tiny island just beyond the reef. The daggers of light tear open the black of the night. It is as though two tectonic plates of the night sky move apart in a blink to show the light of day that is just behind the darkness. Instantly, as though showing us something we shouldn't see, the plates move back together, and it is night once more.

As the song fades away, we hear a crackling coming from the water. Lightning makes daylight for an instant. It is not crackling; it is the applause of six surfers who have been watching us dance.

'They are crazy,' says La Porteña. 'They are floating between two metal jetties.'

I look at her, and we both laugh. We are ourselves standing exposed to the weather, the only upright beings on the long white shore. We are like lightning rods, and the electricity in the air makes my hair light even though it is soaked.

I call to El Suave, who is at the phonograph, and he knows instinctively what we need.

And as the quick step of the milonga Baldosa floja rolls down through the tempest to us, we clasp each other close and feel the heat of each other's body through our wet clothes.

Lightning? It only expresses what we all feel.

mi vida está en la milonga

my life is in the milonga

The Unspoken Rings

2006-07-13T10:46:00.000-04:00

El Generoso gathers La Fidele into his close embrace, and they silently glide into Julio Sosa's En este tarde gris. The milonga this evening seems to be taking a break, and they are alone on the dance floor. Light catches on a lifted glass from the tiny bar in the corner. Laughter from the dark fringes of the small room buffs the lonely edges of the song.

... apiádate de mi dolor,

que estoy cansada de llorarte,

sufrir y esperarte

y hablar siempre a solas

con mi corazón.

... take pity on my sadness,

I am tired of crying for you,

suffering and waiting for you

and always talking all by myself

with my heart.

La Fidele accepts the invitation to the deep volcada and the little space that is between them melts, flesh on flesh, and she turns her eyes as he looks down at her, and their glance is a net. El Generoso looks quickly away at their outstretched arms, following her black silk all the way to her pale hand. On her third finger is a set of wedding rings.

On this gray evening, the song ends, and the voice trails off, the bandoneon quiets. El Generoso takes the left hand of La Fidele to lead her back to her chair. He feels the set of wedding rings that is also on this hand.

As she turns to thank him, El Generoso raises both of her hands and kisses each to let her know that he knows. She smiles and is glad.

In the way of tango, he will never ask, and she will never explain.

The Joyous Birth of Sorrow

2006-07-07T14:41:00.000-04:00

Tango is the only dance that began in pain, not in joy.

Waltz of Hearts

2006-07-03T17:07:00.000-04:00

The DJ is playing still another tango waltz, and I am suddenly interested in pouring water into my plastic cup. I am so tired of Dos corazones that I eye the door of the milonga, open to the night and the only haven from this endlessly old-fashioned music.

El Perdido moves so quickly that I don't see him until he cuts me off at the door.

'Dance with me,' he says with his melting smile, and I put my cup of water down and turn my back on the door. I put my young hand in his, and he leads me to the edge of the floor where dancers are already swaying with the rhythm of this vals. He is 70 but strong and experienced. And, in the usual way of tango, that is all I know about him.

I follow his first step, and I am instantly lost in the hypnotic swing of this song.

When he asks for close embrace, it is natural to move my arm up his. Our chests meet, and we dance as one.

Como el fuego que envuelve el estío,

como nube que abraza otra nube,

así son tu cariño y el mío

que se funden en un solo ideal.

As the fire that wraps the summertime,

As the cloud that embraces another cloud,

Thus is your affection and mine

that fuses itself in one single ideal.

The gentle voice of Rosanna Falasca dies away, and El Perdido and I stop in the middle of the floor. He does not draw away, and I feel his chest shake. I pull away, and his eyes are closed.

My hand is at his cheek, and it comes away wet.

'My wife and I loved to waltz,' says El Perdido. 'We were married 52 years, and I loved every day of it, and I miss her.'

He is loosening his embrace and about to retreat to the shadows beyond reach of the fairy lights of the dance floor. I put the hands of El Perdido back into place.

'Ask them to play it again,' I say.

The Mid-Game of Tango

2006-06-30T15:23:00.000-04:00

'The aggression of the white side in chess,' El Generoso is saying, 'is balanced by the patience of the black side.'

He leads me in a quick forward ocho that he adorns with a rapid kick and a tiny sacada as Mony Lopez' Alaridos en silencio accelerates into its own divisions into extremes.

La migaja y el banquete

la quietud y el huracán

Soy un hueco en pleno cielo

soy el sueño y el desvelo

soy el hambre y soy el pan.

(I am) the crumbs and the banquet

the quiet and the hurricane

I am emptiness in the middle of the sky

I am the dream and the wakefulness

I am hunger and I am bread.

'There is only tango when there are opposites,' says El Generoso, and I want to melt into his beautiful eyes. Instead, at the top of his salida, I stop him with my foot and look into his eyes.

He laughs out loud at the challenge, at the pleasure he takes in my boldness. I am asking him to release his control and let the initiative fall to me. I am asking him to allow me to move his body wherever I please.

'Chess,' says El Generoso, 'only becomes interesting at the mid-game when black sees an opening and pursues it.'

He consents to the pleasure of the journey I propose to him.

Never to Forget

2006-06-27T09:50:00.000-04:00

La Argentina sits outside the milonga. It is 1 a.m., and her feet are bare. Her worn shoes are collapsed at her feet. The moan of Pugliese's Y no puedo olvidarte leaks from the heavy wood door, thrown open for the cool breeze. Inside, the shadows of dancers undulate in the stop and start of this torment of a tango.

cuanto más lo intento más quiero recordar.

however much I try to forget you, the more I want to remember

She smokes a cigarette and looks into the white curls and moving tendrils that pass in front of her face, creating a living mask that changes with every breath. Her eyes are gazing into the distance of a thousand miles, and she whispers one line of the song as Maria Graña sings it ...

porque te quiero, hoy más que ayer

because I love you, today more than yesterday

And she tells me, a stranger, her wish. 'I want to meet another man who can make me cry again.'

A Woman's Intention To Play

2006-06-26T17:43:00.000-04:00

La Argentina arches her body into her partner as he takes the first salida of the dance.
She winks at the dancers surrounding her and gives a huge shrug. 'For this I give you Pugliese. Hah! Emancipación will slow you down, give you time.'

She chooses Dark Eyes as her partner, and as he is about to collect, surprise flashes across his face.

'Intention,' says La Argentina and quickly places her delicate left foot next to the sole of Dark Eyes. 'Let him feel it,' she says. 'But you must have intention. He must feel that you are asking him a question.' La Argentina turns her merry eyes on all of us. 'And what is the question.'

She turns her face full to Dark Eyes. He has not moved since she has interrupted his step. 'The question is: Do you want me to take you on a journey?'

She raises her brows, and Dark Eyes has an eager smile.

The answer is yes, yes, yes.

La Argentina arches forward and puts her weight full on the foot beside that of Dark Eyes. He leans back even further, and then she starts the journey. It is one of sensual discovery. Her foot caresses his calf, her leg insinuates itself between his, catches him behind his knee and asks the leg to collapse a little into her caress.

'Play,' says La Argentina. 'Play. There is no hurry in tango. Play with your partner. Discover each other. That is the purpose of tango.'

The Thieving Harpist

2006-06-25T12:36:00.000-04:00

Languid red shoes with an embrace of webbing, soft black suede shoes with insistent stilettos, shoes like spiders' webs, shoes like love ... nothing is satisfying the woman. The patient shopgirl, who knows the size and shape of a foot with just a glance, endures the woman's sharp tongue and lets a smile play about her mouth.

'You have nothing,' the woman complains and throws a brown shoe to the floor and kicks the box so that it overturns. "Nothing!' She goes to a place inside her where she and her angry thoughts keep company. I've seen her many times at milongas, and she is beautiful. But as beautiful as she is, men do not ask her to dance much. Her dancing leads to love, but her love leads to nothing, and men can only break their hearts once.

The stereo in the back of the shop skips onto the next song, and El gordo triste makes the woman's mouth tighten.

'A sad fat man,' she translates. Her voice is scornful, and the shopgirl and I look at each other. The woman does not know that in the gangster dialect of Buenos Aires, the title means a man who is not the affectionate creature he seems on the outside.

'I've been saving one shoe for last,' says the shopgirl.

'Hummph,' says the woman. 'I knew it.'

The shopgirl kneels at the woman's feet and unwraps the shoes with care. They are made of a meltingly supple black leather. The stitching is exquisite, and the straps wrap and fold like an embrace. I know before she tries them, they will be perfect.
'This is the Arpista style,' says the shopgirl, and I wonder that she can contain herself.

'Harpist. Pista,' says the woman, tasting the word. 'Arpista. It means one who plays the harp. One who pulls the strings and makes them dance. Pista. It means step.' The meanings bring her pleasure, and it shines from her face. The shoes are perfect, and even she is satisfied, at last. 'My feet will be quick in these.'

As she leaves, she takes the tension in the air of the little shop with her, and the shopgirl and I are left with our thoughts.

Arpista in lunfardo means pickpocket, a petty thief who steals on the run the trinkets, the joy, in someone else's pocket.

La Fea and El Gordo

2006-06-20T10:03:00.000-04:00

Across the high counter of the coffee bar, La Fea hands me a cup every morning. Her teeth make her smile crooked, and her glasses are thick. Her wit is quick, and she makes the early hour a pleasure. Handsome men look only at the coffee cup she offers, and they move swiftly away before she finishes speaking. She doesn't come from behind the counter and bribes others to clean the tables for her.

On this day she is alone, and when I enter she is skittering around the tables, grabbing cups, wiping furiously, running as though the floor is hot and it burns her feet. She dumps the stained cups and sticky spoons into a bin and returns to the cover of the counter. I see her secret, and I smile. Her spine is curved, and from the side she is a question mark.

She is perfect.

She looks at me and bites her lip. Her eyes are wide, and she hopes there is no pity in my eyes.

'Come to the milonga tonight,' I say, and she shakes her head quickly and hands me my paper cup of coffee.

'Come,' I say, and there is something in my voice that makes her look up. 'I know something you don't know.' She blinks once and I see the intake of breath. 'I know something you don't know.'

***

The milonga is full of the usual people. El Gordo sits in the corner as he always does. Kind and generous, a tango with him is always surprising. But women don't like to dance with him, and he spends many evenings like this, behind a table, looking with longing at the floor and the darting feet of the tangueros.

Then, Canaro's orchestra begins, and Tita Merello's voice speaks to us from 1954. Se dice de mí plays, and I see La Fea come through the door, lost, alone. I take her hand and lead her to El Gordo, who stands to greet her, and a light comes to both of them.

'I don't know ...' she protests, but El Gordo leads her to the dance floor.

'You don't have to know,' he says. 'I know.' And he takes her in an embrace that is magical.

El Gordo is short and fat as a pumpkin, and La Fea's curved body fits into his like the missing piece of a puzzle.

La fealdad que dios me dio

mucha mujer me la envidió.

The homeliness that God gave me

Many women have envied me.

And as they sweep their way through the line of dance, turning, twisting, their faces catch the light. How have I missed La Fea's beauty? El Gordo's sensuality?

Precious Center

2006-06-19T15:16:00.000-04:00

La Porteña stops in elegant suspension, her weight on her delicate left foot. Her partner knows how to take his time. He is testing her weight with feathery touches as Libertad Lamarque cries out over the decades that crying over the harshness of bought love has created such songs ... such songs ....

And Tristezas de la calle Correntes goes down into painful intimacy.

Triste. ¡Si,
porque sueñas!

You are sad because you dream

And as the last note dies away, and the dancers settle into that quick stillness just before they break apart, a woman screams, and La Porteña lies on the worn wooden floor of the milonga.

Friends fold in like a night flower protecting its precious center. Ice is on the wrists, caresses on her pale cheek. Eyes flutter, her hand is to her forehead, and she opens her mouth, but only her partner can hear her whisper. He shakes his head slowly, but she implores him with a finger to his lip. He undoes the straps on her shoes, her favorite shoes, the black dense suede whose sparkles catch the dim light and make her feet flash.

He lifts her, and as they leave, he drops the shoes into the box of waste near the door. La Porteña's face is hidden in the shoulder of her partner, and they are gone into the lonely night. Her feet are bare, and she disappears into the darkness.

She thought the headaches would allow her this one pleasure, the first in months.

I take the shoes out of the garbage and brush off the bits of paper that have clung to them.

They still sparkle; they still love the light. They are still warm from the foot of La Porteña. She will need these again one day, and I will have them to give her.

Too Much Is Not Enough

2006-06-18T13:59:00.000-04:00

La Aventura throws her head back and laughs out loud in the middle of El choclo, and her partner lightly leads her in a delighted molinete, turning her quickly, her legs flashing.

And as Tita Merello sings ...

y un ansia fiera en la manera de querer ...
a fierce longing in the manner of love ...

La Aventura smiles, and she lights the milonga. And as the song burns, burns, burns to an end in knives, cuts and the explosiveness of Buenos Aires of 1954, she stretches on the last note and comes to sit by me. She is chubby, she is in her 60s, and she is wearing a skirt of clinging black that is slit to the hip. Spaghetti straps hold up a see-through lace top. Skin under her arms shakes as she slaps her knees and laughs some more.

I think that she doesn't see herself, but hurting her feelings is beyond thought.

'Long sleeves take off years,' I comment.

La Aventura lets her smile freeze for a second, then slaps my knee hard and laughs out loud.

'Listen to the words of this song if you want to stay young,' she says. 'Take your life in both of your hands and shake the living daylights out of it.'

She crosses her legs, and the length of flesh shows white in the light of the milonga, and even in this light I can see the sparkle in her eye.

'I was going for the she-should-be-ashamed-of-herself-she's-dressing-too-young look,' she says. A handsome man sitting in front of a Campari nods his head at La Aventura, and she answers his unspoken request with a huge smile that is her invitation. 'So glad when a look really comes together.'

I was wrong. La Aventura is the one who truly sees herself. I was the one who thought mirrors and birthday cakes important.

The Body Never Lies

2006-06-17T11:14:00.000-04:00

In another life, La Condesa had been a theater critic. Her red hair is framed in the fairy lights of the milonga, and she fingers a glass of white wine. It is 3 a.m., and the dancing shadows of our friends move like swift amoebas along the walls as La mentirosa leaks from the old stereo.

'In the Theater of the Absurd the essential message is that communication between people is impossible,' she says. Her eyes watch a bead of water that sweats and runs lazily down the side of her glass. She no longer watches the dancers. It is a dangerous time of the morning for her. 'Words are inadequate. They are misunderstood. No one listens. Words lie and mislead.'

She drinks, drains the glass, and her hand comes away wet, but she doesn't notice.

The man she once loved is dancing with a blonde whose feet are quick and whose look has the sting of a whip.

'The body never lies,' she says and puts her hand to her cheek. 'Why didn't I believe him?'

Her hand drops to the table. Her cheek is glistening.

A Tear in Suspension

2006-06-16T10:30:00.000-04:00

Dark Eyes calls for Pugliese's Una lágrima and takes La Argentina by the hand, wordlessly leading her to the floor of the milonga. He knows that this song, with its lazy rhythm and story of a ruined innocent, will speak to her heart in a way that he never will be able to.

Cuando rodó, cual gota cristalina, sobre su faz, la lágrima de amor, me pareció su cara tan divina - un lirio azul besado por el sol.

When that crystal tear rolled down your face, that tear of love, your face seemed so divine - a blue iris kissed by the sun.

They never speak on the milonga floor, observing the rule of silent conversation that is at the heart of tango. Pugliese reaches across a continent and 40 years and speaks to Dark Eyes and La Argentina, pouring from his heart this story of a young girl whom love left in a veil of tears, never to return to the love that took her innocence.

La Argentina asks Dark Eyes for surrender at the apex of his salida, and he consents. They dance as though there is no one else in the world, and as the song tapers off in its bitter sadness, their steps slow to a stop, and for the first time, La Argentina gives her face fully to Dark Eyes. He releases her from his embrace and touches the gentle back of his hand to her cheek.

It comes away wet. She is smiling.

Lost in Pugliese

2006-06-13T15:33:00.000-04:00

La Argentina's hands flutter to her heart, and her head, resplendent in carmine curls, tilts to the right.

'Pugliese,' she says and moves her head as though she is nestling in the composer's arms, 'when I hear him, it is my heart I hear. When I dance, he fills me. I lose myself when I hear his music.' Her fingers, clenched, unfurl like the petals of a flower, giving the music that she feels to all of us.

The Farol, the streetlight in the slums, is our illumination.

Haiku Tango

2006-06-12T21:04:00.000-04:00

Haiku is all of one's life compressed into seventeen syllables.

Tango fits life into eight beats.

The Silent Goodbye

2006-06-09T10:35:00.000-04:00

El Hermoso is asking why I didn't say goodbye last night. A wrinkle forms on his intelligent forehead, and his soft eyes search mine. The milonga was a perfect confusion of dancers and soft light and the cries of Tito Reyes' Frente al espejo.

Me pregunto vida mía, alma mía, qué ha pasado
que ya no estás más a mi lado y no sé encontrarte más.

And while he held me in our old close embrace, I thought of all the things that used to mean something to us. We used to speak of all the things in this song, and all we talked about last night was placement of feet and offers of cold encouragement. I would never allow myself to cry again in his presence.

Luego, a solas, y de pie frente al espejo
yo no sé a quién desprecio
si a mí mismo, si al alcohol... o a la vida

Later, by myself right in front of the mirror
I don't know whom I despise
if it's myself, if it's the alcohol ... or life

Last night El Hermoso let the music soak through his skin until it flowed into mine, and our skins melted together. It was too much pain; it was too much pleasure.

I look into El Hermoso's kind eyes, and his hand trails down mine, uncalculated comfort.

'I had a headache,' I say. 'Forgive me.' And, as always, he does.

Stepping Stone

2006-06-02T15:49:00.000-04:00

Maybe it is the world weariness of Adriana Varela's Cambalache that makes the woman edgy. The lesson is going badly, the teacher has little experience, and people are just learning steps and not learning tango. The woman stands alone, watching the others who are partnered, and I offer to lead, apologizing for my red heels and the awkwardness of what I will do. She smiles, and I press into the open embrace.
I don't care that the song is half over, and I begin to move when Varela talks about how the world has flattened into sameness.

¡Ignorante, sabio o chorro,

generoso o estafador!

¡Todo es igual!

¡Nada es mejor!

I begin to feel the music and lead her to a bright cruzada, and she stops when I try to lead into a molinete. Her grip is tight, and she looks up at me with a grumpy face.
'You're not leading the steps,' she scolds.
I drop my arms and realize why she was standing alone, being ignored. There is nothing I can do.
'I need some water,' I say. 'Excuse me.' And I know she is watching me, puzzled, as I leave the dance floor.

Beauty Does Not Forget

2006-06-01T17:30:00.000-04:00

He walked like a varón, stalking the edges of the milonga like a cat, ignoring Amadeo Mandarino's plaintive Al verla pasar. He pretended not to know her as he walked by, but she did not look down. She did not ignore his arrogance. A smile curved one side of her mouth as her black eyes followed his movement.
His shoes were blue, and he wore a fedora like Carlos Gardel had done.
She had once been the most beautiful woman at the milonga; he had once been her partner.
Now he touches his hat as he looks across the room at the lithe blonde on a high stool. She fingers her glass, and devastation happens in an instant. The blonde is the one who turns away.
And she who was ignored laughs to herself and knows she is still beautiful.

The Muse of Graceful Loss

2006-05-31T20:01:00.000-04:00

El Suave was in love that night, wonderfully, spectacularly drunk on the fullness of his heart. But she belonged to another man, and El Suave would never have her. Her heels were needles lightly punching the floor, and every beat was a tear in his skin. Charlo's Olvido leaked out of the stereo.

Pero yo sé que hay que olvidar
y olvido sin protestar.

I know that I must forget, and forget without protest ...

'The goddess of dance is a woman,' he said.
'Ah,' I answered, 'but even Terpsichore's heart knew who loved her.'

Milonga Thighs

2006-05-30T20:27:00.000-04:00

The music was ripe with drunkenness and a good time, and, almost as though she had heard the music calling her name, La Fiera snapped out of an enganche and stopped for an instant in front of us, her stiletto heels fairly vibrating with the insistence of the next move.
No one had see her for months.
She had lost fifty pounds.
La Fiera closed one mascaraed eye in a languid wink.
'Oh, honey,' she said with a flip of her hand, 'thinner thighs in thirty milongas.'
Her laugh sailed across the crowded dance floor.

Mojito Sculpture

2006-05-26T09:58:00.000-04:00

The spearmint is fresh from the garden, and the limes are ripe. I make the mojitos in a clear glass pitcher, and all of us take a break from practicing and sit on the deck in the hot sun. I turn up the stereo, so we can hear the skipping sounds of Tita Merello's El choclo, and the lyrics make us laugh in the celebration of that underworld that gave birth to this dance we love. El Suave holds up his glass, and we all give him our eyes.
'Tango is a work of art,' he says, 'that the man creates with the woman's body.'

The Lover of La Porteña

2006-05-22T16:12:00.000-04:00

It is almost 2 a.m., and the milonga isn't crowded. People talk quietly in the dark, and my eye catches the smooth movement of a perfect barrida. I forget to breathe. He is the man who used to love La Porteña, and I think of the words of Nostalgias and I listen inside my head to the tears in Enrique Cadícamo's voice.

Quiero emborrachar mi corazón
para apagar un loco amor

I want to get my heart so drunk that it extinguishes a crazy love.

Angustia ... de sentirme abandonado ... y pensar que otro a su lado pronto... pronto le hablará de amor...

Anguish. To feel myself abandoned and to think that some other is at your side ... quickly, quickly, he will speak of love to her ...

La Porteña is in the hospital, and this man doesn't know.

The Lonely Pain

2006-05-21T11:54:00.000-04:00

I cannot sit politely in my too-delicate wooden chair when the longing strains of Uno make a late appearance at the milonga. I thought Libertad Lamarque was happy and skipping before I spoke Spanish. But now, understanding means that the words are razors to me, who has been left behind. I cannot keep tears from gathering when she laments her lost love.

Uno está tan solo en su dolor...

Uno está tan ciego en su penar....

One is so alone in one's sadness/One is so blind in one's pain.

And I cannot rise from that quaking chair to make the solitary walk to the other side of the room and go to the one my heart cries for.

What of Me?

2006-05-20T10:22:00.000-04:00

The voice of Elba Berón stabbed out of the stereo from a time long ago in Buenos Aires, and the man took his partner into a close embrace and forced her down into a low media luna.
The lights were dim, and their glow was rosy, spilling onto the old oak of the milonga floor. The dancers played with the melody of Y a mi qué? as they navigated the space, oblivious to others. Their eyes were hungry on each other. They melted into one as the song's notes bled to the floor.
He no longer knew I existed.
Anguish.

The Tango Maldito

2006-05-19T18:16:00.000-04:00

Her heart sang when she first started tango, and no milonga was bright unless she was dancing. Men pursued her. Women envied her. But she became too much like Libertad Lamarque's Maldito tango, and her work went away, her children went away, and, finally, even her friends went away. She thought tango would fill her up, and at the end, it was the very thing that emptied her.
Tango is a conversation that is wordless, a give and take that is purely physical. You have to know when the conversation has ended.

Pawn Captures en passant

2006-05-17T11:02:00.000-04:00

'The man leads; the woman follows,' Dark Eyes was saying. He folded the hand of Delight into his own, wrapped his arm around her back, and her body melted into his.
The staccato beat of Osvaldo Fresedo's Después de carnaval leaked out of the speakers, and they swayed, finding the rhythm. When they moved, Delight was a split second behind Dark Eyes, almost imperceptibly following. Tango is like chess; aggression and patience find a balance — and a victory.

Eyes at the Media Luz

2006-05-16T14:39:00.000-04:00

The restaurant was new, and the owners named it A media luz. What else could we all do but meet there before the milonga? El Soave brought his Carlos Gardel CDs, and we talked the owners into putting them on, and we all listened, song after song. The polished wood of the floor glowed in the twilight of the room. We sat at sleek tables and raised our flutes of Krug champagne.
'You must give eyes when you toast,' commanded El Soave. Such politeness was a mark of his exotic upbringing, and I thought how disconnected every other toast I'd ever made had been. 'Eyes,' he said again. 'Give your eyes.'

The Lonely Gorgeous

2006-05-15T10:35:00.000-04:00

The plaintive notes of Carlos Gardel's Te aconsejo que me olvides floated across the dim dance floor. The strengthening dawn was lightening the windows, and Gardel's words were lonely and pleading in this last hour of the milonga. Gorgeous was poised in a chair, her ballerina body forward and attentive, and no one asked her to dance. Foolish men.

The Laughing Milonguero

2006-05-14T20:12:00.000-04:00

El Generoso offers me time for embellishment, and I mistake his generosity for god-knows-what other invitation. I have committed the ultimate sin of letting my mind wander, and I am dangling my foot off by his side somewhere, lost and out of synch with Adiós Nonino. We look at each other, and we are struck by wondrous mirth.
'The rules of the milonga say we can't talk,' I scold mildly.
His eyes are merry, and the right one winks. 'But nothing says we can't laugh.'
And he dances me off into the twilight of the hall and into the quick step of Gardel's Canchero.

The Stab to the Heart

2006-05-13T17:38:00.000-04:00

The woman was stabbing the floor with the stiletto heels of shoes the color of steel. The toes of the shoes were open, and her nails flashed blood. The beaten floors of the old dance hall were warmed by the strings of tiny white lights that hung from the ceiling like glowing vines. The man led her in a deep sacada that forced her legs around his. Again and again. It was the urgently longing part of Pasional, and the other dancers opened a space around them. People sat and turned to watch.
'They're dancing as though they hate each other,' I said. "They're furious.'
'Just so,' said La Porteña. 'You can always tell when someone is about to have an affair.'

The Lack of La Porteña

2006-05-12T10:17:00.000-04:00

El Suave took the beginner across the dance floor, showing her what the tango was meant to be and finished the last song of the tanda with an elegant rulo. His turn settled as the music ended, and his eyes lifted and met mine.
'I miss La Porteña,' he said.
'The headaches are worse,' I said. And I realized that the last song they had danced to was Jamás retornarás.

The Close Embrace of Dark Eyes

2006-05-11T10:00:00.000-04:00

Out of the sea of couples rose two heads like dolphins on a wave crest, appearing, then diving back into the moving ocean of dancers, buoyed by the reedy voice of Carlos Gardel's Esta noche me emborracho. I smiled at the moment. The non-tango world would have been shocked, but here, in this milonga, gliding across the parquet floor with the world at bay outside, Dark Eyes and El Soave were in close embrace. They wanted to take turns wearing the 3-inch heels so each could see what the follower — the woman — would feel. The gaze of Dark Eyes was concentrated and fixed and floated above his forearm as he started his back ocho and our transportation to the Buenos Aires of 1928.

The Effortless Boleo

2006-05-10T10:46:00.000-04:00

The roomy body of El Generoso pushed into my stomach, the perfect fit, the tension and compression melt into one, and it is impossible for me to mistake his intent. Boleos are effortless.

The Existential Pine

2006-05-09T12:36:00.000-04:00

It rained all the way home from the milonga, hours and hours of spray, with the noisy slap, slap, slap obbligato of old windshield wipers. We were traveling down miles of a corridor formed by pines. They lifted their limbs in an existential contradiction of struggle and sheer joy in the same way a Sunday preacher lifts his arms, heavy with sin and mortal suffering, but finding redemption above. The trees drank their redemption from the sky and spread their arms with thanks.

The Red Shoes of La Aventurera

2006-05-08T14:55:00.000-04:00

La Aventurera threw her foot up on the chair and declared that she would spend the next year in Argentina, hiring taxi dancers who are far too young and far too good looking for their own good to squire her to every milonga in Buenos Aires. These are the shoes she bought just minutes before the first tanda.

The Silent Explosion

2006-05-08T12:29:00.000-04:00

The boleo is like the exclamation point that comes at the end of a smooth, gliding sentence. El Generoso's massive arms are clear about what they want, and when the reedy, insistent voice of Libertad Lamarque cried for her lover's besos brujos, I answer his invitation with an extravagant flip of my leg, backwards, knees touching, foot high in the air and then letting the weight of my leg take it down into the momentum of a forward flip, my foot coming to rest against the side of the other. After the explosion comes the silence, where I wait those eternal seconds for my next invitation.

The Arm and the Red Enamel

2006-05-05T09:36:00.000-04:00

She painted her nails red. Stop sign red. And when her hand rested on the charcoal arm of her partner, the eye stopped dead at her fingertips. She hadn't just colored her nails; she put up a wall that the man couldn't cross.
Men and women were meant to melt together.

When Rules Mean Nothing

2006-05-04T17:40:00.000-04:00

La Porteña was laughing about her glasses.
'They're Buddy Holly,' I said, astonished she would wear them to milongas in Buenos Aires.
The eyes must be naked when dancing.
'No, no,' she said. The glasses were aggressively black-rimmed, but they were narrow and the air around La Porteña came from the direction of the Champs Elysées, not Lubbock, Texas. 'They're irresistible. When I'd wear my contacts, I looked like every other woman in the room. But these glasses … ' Her eyes did an upkick, and she gave her hand a quick shake. 'These glasses … the milongueros wouldn't let me sit down!'

Healing La Porteña

2006-05-03T11:46:00.000-04:00

La Porteña was having another headache, a massive black weight that darkened and pressed the light that always, always shines out of her. Her partner, Descartes, led her to the floor of the little salon.
Its floor-to-ceiling windows invited a reflection of green and blue from the rolling lawn outside and, beyond, the endless horizon of the water. He folded her up in his gentle arms, she lifted herself on the toes of her dance sneakers, closed her eyes and let herself be swept off into Ojos Negros. As he navigated the small space and spun to face us, Descartes lifted a brow. "Tango therapy," he said with a smile and executed a perfect giro in the splashing sunshine.

The Cat and the Moon

2006-05-02T12:38:00.000-04:00

I raised my knee high over the man's hip, and the layers, layers, layers of white chiffon broke like a wave, and the spindrift of material foamed at his waist. He gave me the gift of a smile and then snapped my leg back until my knee brushed the wood floor, my back bending, my face upturned and shining. I felt the muscle of his arm as I gave him some of my weight. I was the half moon, and he was the cat caressing it.

The Incredible Lightness of Being Short

2006-05-01T07:38:00.000-04:00

The man was five inches shorter than me, but when he danced, he flung his head back, lifted his arms in an extravagance of ballroom style and squired, yes squired me, across the floor. No talking during a milonga? We were laughing. Some men break all the rules, and the result is pure delight.

The Love Spiral

2006-04-30T17:55:00.000-04:00

My arms started the spiral that flowed to my waist and down, down my legs, finally turning my feet. The hard soles of the red shoes make it one liquid, perfect movement, a movement where time and thought hold their breath. After the sighing stop, I drop my arms, and I am grateful to be in this body and to have this gift.
I got an e-mail from a woman who prides herself on her church-going faith. The note said we should throw all Hispanics out of this country. The note was filled with hatred. She has taken to her breast a pale, chill comfort and missed the perfection of movement; she has not opened herself to warmth and joy. She feels Hispanics should all speak English, that treasuring their own soaring language is an affront.
This hatred has drawn scratches on her soul, and she bleeds one drop at a time.
I raise my arms and begin another ocho, a perfect one with healing power. If this woman were to let the thump and heartbreak of the bandoneon enter her and carry her off, she would fall in love, and her soul, her wounded soul, would heal.

The 3-Inch Lead

2006-04-29T16:54:00.000-04:00

The woman looked up at me, and my only thought was, She doesn't blink. She was dancing in blue jeans and heavy white socks and had a silver nose ring and lacy tattoos up her arms. The soft helplessness of her belied the aggressiveness of her skin art. The hardest thing for a woman to do, I told her -- she didn't blink -- is to follow. Find a stillness as you wait for the man. You will find it in long stretches of split seconds. She nodded and was game to try. The second hardest thing, I said with a laugh and looked down, is to lead wearing 3-inch heels.

The Suede Salida

2006-04-29T12:53:00.000-04:00

He approached the salida like a panther, hunched, poised, breath held, and then the music rose up into its hook and pulled him to my side. He smiled, and the happiness radiated out of him like the sun. He looked down, and my eyes followed his leg to the floor. I have new shoes, he said, and he pointed his toes, showing off the black, flexible suede.

Sole Embrace

2006-04-28T16:39:00.000-04:00

Bands of leather criss-cross on the front of the red shoes, folding over in an embrace that leads all the way up to the man's arms.

Butterfly Man

2006-04-28T07:59:00.000-04:00

The man was a beginner and his touch was light, butterfly death throes on my back. He was stumbling,
losing his way in the middle of an ocho. His walk was hesitant. He was still afraid of entering my
space. He knew he wasn't getting it, and his mouth was disappearing in a hard line. I stopped and for a
split second inertia carried him, and then he realized a fundamental fact of tango: If the woman refuses
the invitation, the dance stops. I held him in front of me, and I said, The steps you're learning are a
pattern, and it's good to get started this way and see how things flow together. But tango is a language,
and it is how you talk to a woman. But instead of words, you have only your body. Think of these steps
-- the ochos that flow into a circling molinete -- as a few words. Each time you dance, you learn a few
more words, and when you've learned a dozen or so words, you can put them together in sentences that
just keep going. And the day will come -- and it will take you by surprise -- when you will hold a woman
in your arms, and you will suddenly say to yourself, "Damn, it's good to be a man."

Red Shoes and Rain

2006-04-27T14:43:00.000-04:00

The door is ratty, the dancers outside the door smoke cigarettes and wear torn leg warmers, but upstairs ... oh, upstairs at Worldtone on 7th Avenue is the mecca, the East, the end of the Silk Road, the only place where you can actually try on the tango shoes you love. It always takes at least two hours, and you can't practice ochos by steadying yourself on the racks, or you will bring them down on top of you. The smell is leather and sweat. What could be sweeter?
Outside the second-story windows was a downpour to chill the head and soak the feet, but inside, the red tango shoes with the 3-inch heels were all mine.